It is true, "Nobody likes a rut, except, perhaps, a seed."
Do you take time to explore and try something different?
Are you setting an example that you would like to follow?
Do you offer to help, more?
What about going out on a limb and consider a bit of change in your life?
We can be our own best friends and give ourselves time to write our own heart a letter, buy a gift for ourselves. I think when we set goals or cultivate a change, we deserve a kiss or a charm.
Waxing Poetic has lots of goodies to motivate one, or at least to plant a little seed of change.
"Everything is up to you."